• boatsnhos931@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    I think you are overthinking it way too much. I’m just talking about the social norms. Who said anything about committing crimes??? Did you think I was talking about breaking the law? Wtf? You trying to grab a tit while you say hey? Just say what’s up and if she doesn’t bite, go to the next one. Don’t get discouraged, it’s all about getting out there and practicing but it sounds like you may have some social insecurities that need to be addressed first… playbooiiii LOL

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      6 months ago

      The only rules are the ones you make playbooiiii

      Is what I was making a joke about. There are, in fact, “rules,” being the crux of the joke.

      But no I mean the fact that supposedly no woman wants men to say what’s up anywhere but the bar, which I do not frequent, or the dating apps, which are spyware.

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            6 months ago

            Nah I just go to the bar and do some shots. Buy some drinks for the girls. Social lubricant, You know what I mean jelly bean?

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              6 months ago

              So is the bar “a place other than the bar or dating apps” though? You see my conundrum. Must I start drinking again simply to find a partner? Sobriety (well, weed, but whatever) is a married man’s game?

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                6 months ago

                It would be a lot easier if you drank casually id say but I’m assuming you would probably want a SO that doesn’t drink as well. There was an organization near me that did all kinds of kayaking, hiking, theme parks, restaurants, tours just for singles called ‘events and adventures’ or excursions or something like that and a friend of mine had some luck with meeting his wife there. Maybe you could try if you are in the US I’m sure every major city has something like that

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                  6 months ago

                  That sounds like a good idea if it’s specifically for singles, sounds like exactly what I’m looking for! I’ll see if my area has anything, thanks!