• heavy@sh.itjust.works
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    7 months ago

    The down votes are likely a knee jerk reaction, but it’s no big deal 🙂

    I agree with you, that’s a better way of thinking. It’s more rational to say hey, that one didn’t work out but it’ll be fine.

    I understand though, rejection hurts, and most of us have been through that. I just think more people need to be able to brush those things off and move on, as you’re saying.

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      7 months ago

      Yes rejection hurts and it is difficult to not take it personally, I just feel like incels need help, and just shaming them for something we acknowledge is involuntary doesn’t really help the issue