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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Glum_Cheesecake_6438 on 2023-07-04 23:02:51+00:00.


Hello, everyone. I’m new here, and I’d like to share my story with you. I’m a 31-year-old American-born Pakistani Muslim, and my marriage, or rather, wedding night, is approaching on Friday, July 7th. I’m entering into an arranged marriage with my beautiful fiancée, who is also an American-born Pakistani Muslim, just like me. She is 22 years old. Our families, who have been friends for many years, arranged our marriage. I vaguely remember seeing her at parties during my high school years, as she was just a child at the time. And now, she’s going to be my wife.

We’ve been engaged since March 2023, and in nearly four months, we will be married. Due to our religion, culture, and our commitment to our faith, we are both virgins. I am excited to have sex with her and consummate our marriage on our wedding night. We have been talking on the phone and texting for several weeks, and she shares the same desire. However, since we are both new to this, I want to ensure that she is comfortable, happy, and safe. Despite our marriage being arranged, I have developed feelings for her and have grown to love her through getting to know her.

I should also mention that I am financially stable and well-settled and I have a nice house. I earn a six-figure salary in the tech industry, making approximately $250,000 to $300,000 per year. Because of this, I am eager to start a family and have children as soon as possible. Therefore, we have decided to have sex naturally without using condoms or contraception, as we discussed.

I would greatly appreciate any advice since, as a 31-year-old virgin, I feel somewhat inexperienced. Thank you in advance for your help.